What’s wrong with pornography?


First, porn objectifies women. Or all people for that matter. The options for porn material are numerous. There’s homosexual porn, child porn, and, of course, adult female porn. We objectify people when we use them for our own self-centred purposes. That’s what porn does. It uses people. It treats them as objects. Porn is using […]

Truth untold – Are you playing with fire?


“Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?“– Proverbs 6:27 Sexual desire is like a fire that spreads as soon as it is lit. For a man, something he sees or a thought that pops up in his mind can be enough to ignite it. For a woman, if she […]

Masturbation indicates lack of self-control


Some people say masturbation is normal and amoral, others contend that masturbation can be either amoral or immoral, and still others believe masturbation is always immoral. How might we assess these various opinions? First, as Christians, we certainly wouldn’t align with the first view that masturbation is always amoral. We may agree that it’s normal, […]

Is your sexuality leading you to Shame?

burning saints on article Shame

When sin is involved, especially sexual sin, shame is the result. That is how God protects His gift of sexuality. It is similar to the warning light in your car that alerts you to the fact something is wrong, and that you need to take heed. When people cross God’s sexual boundary, shame is the […]

God’s original design for Sex

Sexual Intercourse

“Do not move an ancient boundary stone set up by your ancestors.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭22:28‬ ‭NIV The sexual revolution moves some boundaries that our ancestors have set. We have a loving Father who has put beautiful boundaries upon His gift of sexuality because He knows us better than we know ourself and He doesn’t want us […]