Discovering yourself in your singleness.

Discovering yourself in your singleness

Notice, the first thing God created was not a relationship but it’s singleness. Your relationship may not be successful because of the issue of your singleness. A successful relationship is the fruit of the healthy single life that you have lived. Everything started from the life of singleness; your relationship, your marriage, your parenting everything […]

Truth untold – Are you playing with fire?


“Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned?“– Proverbs 6:27 Sexual desire is like a fire that spreads as soon as it is lit. For a man, something he sees or a thought that pops up in his mind can be enough to ignite it. For a woman, if she […]

It’s much simpler to fall in love than to remain in love.


It’s a sad truth that most people fall in love without knowing the value of a relationship. The first question you need to ask yourself is “Why do I want to be in a relationship?’’ The relationship has been perverted by the world that is why we see 8 breakup’s out of 10. The rate […]

Masturbation indicates lack of self-control


Some people say masturbation is normal and amoral, others contend that masturbation can be either amoral or immoral, and still others believe masturbation is always immoral. How might we assess these various opinions? First, as Christians, we certainly wouldn’t align with the first view that masturbation is always amoral. We may agree that it’s normal, […]

God’s original design for Sex

Sexual Intercourse

“Do not move an ancient boundary stone set up by your ancestors.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭22:28‬ ‭NIV The sexual revolution moves some boundaries that our ancestors have set. We have a loving Father who has put beautiful boundaries upon His gift of sexuality because He knows us better than we know ourself and He doesn’t want us […]

The secret behind self-control

For a while I thought being a good follower of Jesus meant saying yes to everyone. I thought I was supposed to help anyone when asked and take every opportunity to serve. Isn’t this what Jesus meant when He said for us to lay our lives down? A few years ago, we bought a house […]

Accountability and its necessity

Accountability doesn’t involve controlling, if it’s that, well, it’s not freedom. Accountability in simple terms means giving an account of the ability that a person has been steward with. Accountability is having someone you can rely on, trusting that through thick and thin the person is there loving and empowering you in all your messes […]