HOW DO YOU MANAGE YOUR SEX DRIVE IN A HEALTHY WAY WITHOUT… YOU KNOW?

QUESTION: How do you manage your sex drive or your desire to have sex without masturbating? Masturbation has been presented to me as my only option and yeah there is no harm in masturbating because I am not including other people physically, or is there any other way? How can I manage my sexual desires […]

What’s wrong with pornography?

Pornography

First, porn objectifies women. Or all people for that matter. The options for porn material are numerous. There’s homosexual porn, child porn, and, of course, adult female porn. We objectify people when we use them for our own self-centred purposes. That’s what porn does. It uses people. It treats them as objects. Porn is using […]

Masturbation indicates lack of self-control

Masturbation

Some people say masturbation is normal and amoral, others contend that masturbation can be either amoral or immoral, and still others believe masturbation is always immoral. How might we assess these various opinions? First, as Christians, we certainly wouldn’t align with the first view that masturbation is always amoral. We may agree that it’s normal, […]

Is your sexuality leading you to Shame?

burning saints on article Shame

When sin is involved, especially sexual sin, shame is the result. That is how God protects His gift of sexuality. It is similar to the warning light in your car that alerts you to the fact something is wrong, and that you need to take heed. When people cross God’s sexual boundary, shame is the […]